Can Families Participate in the Composting Process or Ceremony?

Generally, most companies that offer natural composting provide families an opportunity to bid farewell to their loved one during the initial process, often referred to as the “laying in” service or ceremony. This is when the body is first placed inside a vessel or pod alongside biodegradable plant materials. This ceremony is similar to a graveside service where families and friends commune to say their final goodbyes as the deceased is laid to rest.

Most companies provide a small intimate space for the laying in ceremony. Although state laws may slightly differ, many encourage hands-on participation in the process for families if they wish to do so.

Families may be allowed to:

• Assist staff in moving loved one’s body into vessel
• Assist staff in covering the body with plant materials (straw, alfalfa, sawdust, etc)
• Place special biodegradable items or hand-written notes inside the vessel
• Decorate the vessels with mementos or photos 

Families might also consider incorporating the following into the ceremony, if allowable:

• Music; soothing or favorite songs
• Candle lighting
• Minister or Spiritual Leader
• Guided breathing or meditation

Some companies also allow families to visit their loved one’s vessel at their facility to grieve at any time during the composting process, which can take up to several months in total. 

An additional, and perhaps the most rewarding, opportunity for families to participate in natural organic reduction occurs after the composting process is complete. When the compost is ready, families can take it home and divide it up to share among themselves. They can use the soil in their own gardens, plant trees or shrubs in local parks, or donate it to a conservation organization. Later, when families visit these places, they will be reminded of their loved one with every bloom or blossom that grows.