• “The Night Where You No Longer Live” by Meghan O’RourkeA speaker asks their loved one questions about death and the afterlife

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    “The Night Where You No Longer Live” by Meghan O’Rourke
    A speaker asks their loved one questions about death and the afterlife



  • “And if I should ever die, God forbid, I hope you will say, ‘Kurt is up in heaven now.’ That’s my favorite joke.”
    – Kurt Vonnegut

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  • Vietnamese Funeral Food Customs and SuperstitionsAn exploration into the various food customs and superstitions in Vietnamese funerals

    Vietnamese Funeral Food Customs and Superstitions
    An exploration into the various food customs and superstitions in Vietnamese funerals

    For the Vietnamese, food plays a major role in funeral traditions, both for the person who has died and his or her surviving loved ones. The traditions commence with how the body is prepared for the visitors expected during the wake. Family members ceremonially cleanse the body of their loved one who has died. A…

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  • Old is the New Black
    The fashion world is slowly embracing graceful aging

    For decades, models on the cover of most fashion magazines were rarely old enough to order a drink at a bar. In fact, most working models are still between 13 and 16 years old. The world of high fashion is about youth, thinness and airbrushed perfection. A woman over the age of 50 has had…

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  • Monday Hearts for Madalene
    Page Hodel creates the most beautiful hearts in an ongoing celebration of love

    It’s an honor for SevenPonds to share with our readers the story of the Monday Hearts for Madalene project, a true account of the power of love in the midst of death. The project’s origins take us to 2005: the moment Page Hodel encountered Madalene Rodriguez and fell “instantly, dizzyingly in love with her.” The couple’s first meeting was…

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  • “Camille on Her Death Bed” by Impressionst Claude Monet, 1879The artist preserved the image and memory of his wife on canvas as she neared death

    “Camille on Her Death Bed” by Impressionst Claude Monet, 1879
    The artist preserved the image and memory of his wife on canvas as she neared death

    There is no better poster-child for impressionism than Claude Monet. Even if you don’t know much about Monet, chances are you’ve seen some form of his water lilies on everything from mugs to mousepads. The French painter was born Oscar-Claude Monet in 1840. Monet struggled with lung cancer and finally died at the age of…

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  • Our Weekly Tip: Memorial Wind Chime
    Create sights and sounds that remind you of your loved one

    Our Tip of the Week: Sometimes, when you’re grieving the loss of a loved one, you just want a space to sit and think. Memorial wind chimes can help the grief you feel in this moment. Not only are wind chimes beautiful garden decorations, they create tranquil sounds that can calm a worried mind. When…

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  • “Saving Zoë“

This fictional tale of a girl who loses her sister to murder teaches readers about the complexities of complicated grief

    “Saving Zoë“


    This fictional tale of a girl who loses her sister to murder teaches readers about the complexities of complicated grief

    Struggling to figure out what to read next, visiting one of my local Little Free Libraries turned serendipitous when I picked up this book with my not-quite-that-common name (and its spelling) in its title and learned that death and complicated grief were the main themes of this young adult novel. The first few words of…

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  • Ramadan Funeral TraditionsWhat happens when someone dies during this Muslim holy month?

    Ramadan Funeral Traditions
    What happens when someone dies during this Muslim holy month?

    This year’s Ramadan observance starts today and lasts until July 16. People around the world celebrate the tradition with a set of guidelines passed down for generations. For Muslims, Ramadan is a month of reflection and willpower. To commemorate Muhammad and the revelation of the Quran, Muslim believers take one month out of the year…

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  • Here They Talk About DeathHow choosing their end-of-life care helped residents of La Crosse reduce their healthcare costs

    Here They Talk About Death
    How choosing their end-of-life care helped residents of La Crosse reduce their healthcare costs

    While healthcare costs are among the top concerns for an average American, the small city of La Crosse, Wisconsin spends less on the end-of-life care than any other place in the country. Saving money was not the main goal for Bud Hammes, a medical ethicist for the Gundersen Health System. Bud was the one who…

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