• “Dying Young”A tender yet heartbreaking film on love, loss, and the fragile beauty of time.

    “Dying Young”
    A tender yet heartbreaking film on love, loss, and the fragile beauty of time.

    I appropriately write this review as our blog writer Katie drives from San Francisco to Orange County today to be with her mom who starts chemotherapy treatments in the morning.  This film “Dying Young“, directed by Joel Schumacher, is, as the title implies, the story of 28-year-old Victor as played by actor Campbell Scott, who is…

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  • Increase in Cremation Jewelry and Art Reflects Changing PracticesSmall keepsakes allow family and friends to keep loved ones close

    Increase in Cremation Jewelry and Art Reflects Changing Practices
    Small keepsakes allow family and friends to keep loved ones close

    Laying a loved one to rest in a cemetery can carry a finality that some people find depressing —  perhaps one reason more people today are moving away from interment or entombment, and toward creative ways to celebrate and honor cremated remains. That means demand has grown for keepsakes that incorporate cremains. Family members are…

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  • How Dare You Die Now!Acknowledging the anger or pain of an earlier-than-expected death

    How Dare You Die Now!
    Acknowledging the anger or pain of an earlier-than-expected death

    Sweethearts since high school, Amy and Don had been inseparable, and married at age 20. Now, the future they had been constructing was quickly crumbling. Diagnosed with lung cancer just two years prior, Don was now close to death at the age of 32. “He did this to us. I told him not to smoke and now he’s…

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  • Debating Medical Aid in DyingThe news that Daniel Kahneman, Israeli-American Nobel Prize winner, chose to end his life in Switzerland, has nenewed debate on medical aid in dying.

    Debating Medical Aid in Dying
    The news that Daniel Kahneman, Israeli-American Nobel Prize winner, chose to end his life in Switzerland, has nenewed debate on medical aid in dying.

    Since 1994, when Oregon became the first U.S. state to legalize medical aid in dying to terminally ill people, the number of states where it is an option has grown to 10, plus the District of Columbia. But it remains a struggle of conscience for many: Only a year after his death has it become…

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  • What Happens to Metal in a Body After Cremation? (Interview)The metal parts inside a body are recycled after cremation. Resable metals are kept out of landfills. Pacemakers are refurbished and donated.

    What Happens to Metal in a Body After Cremation? (Interview)
    The metal parts inside a body are recycled after cremation. Resable metals are kept out of landfills. Pacemakers are refurbished and donated.

    Kevin McKay is the manager of the cremation division of Cremation Recycling, a part of Mid-States Recycling & Refining that specializes in precious metal refinery services for funeral homes throughout the United States. Involved in the precious metals recycling industry since 2001, McKay has been with Mid-States, located just outside Chicago, since 2016. We spoke…

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  • “Help Me, Helen”A woman recounts the final days of caring for her husband, who was dying from bladder cancer, and how that ordeal revealed the strength of their love.

    “Help Me, Helen”
    A woman recounts the final days of caring for her husband, who was dying from bladder cancer, and how that ordeal revealed the strength of their love.

    This is Helen’s story, as told to writer Aurora Wells. Our “Opening Our Hearts” stories are based on people’s real-life experiences with grief and loss. By sharing these experiences, we hope to help our readers feel less alone in their grief and ultimately aid them in their healing process. In this post, we tell the…

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  • Dying is Not Always a Sad Process

    Dying is Not Always a Sad Process

    We think of dying as something sad — a path paved only with despair. But my grandmother Ida taught me otherwise. One day, at age 81, she awoke with difficulty swallowing. My mother took her to the doctor, who fed a scope down her throat and into her stomach. There it was: a tumor. The doctor…

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  • 14 Quotes About Spirituality and DeathKahlil Gibran, Voltaire, Rumi and other great minds offer their observations to help us perceive the eternal.

    14 Quotes About Spirituality and Death
    Kahlil Gibran, Voltaire, Rumi and other great minds offer their observations to help us perceive the eternal.

    Nature is just one way for us to see the beauty around us that transcends our daily lives and thus provides greater perspective about death.

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  • Recovering Cremation Remains After the Los Angeles FiresVolunteer archaeologists working with the Alta Heritage Foundation are using a unique method for recovering cremation remains after LA fires.

    Recovering Cremation Remains After the Los Angeles Fires
    Volunteer archaeologists working with the Alta Heritage Foundation are using a unique method for recovering cremation remains after LA fires.

    Losing a home in a fire is bad enough, but losing the cremains of a loved one in the ruins adds an extra measure of anguish. Hundreds of families may be in that situation following the massive fires in Los Angeles last January. Now a nonprofit that does not charge for its services is working…

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