• Our Monthly Tip: Have a Candlelight Ceremony During the HolidaysReflect upon a loved one's life with an intimate gathering around candles

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    Our Monthly Tip: Have a Candlelight Ceremony During the Holidays
    Reflect upon a loved one’s life with an intimate gathering around candles



  • “Do Not Stand At My Grave And Weep.”A composer sets the popular bereavement poem to music with hauntingly beautiful results

    “Do Not Stand At My Grave And Weep.”
    A composer sets the popular bereavement poem to music with hauntingly beautiful results

    Since 1932, when florist and Baltimore-based homemaker Mary Elizabeth Frye wrote “Do Not Stand at My Grave and Weep,” quite a few musicians have felt compelled to set the poem to music. Frye’s wise, comforting lines have been transformed into choral compositions, pop songs, rock songs and folk songs. Its lines have even been interpolated with…

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  • Changing the Perspective on Childhood CancerSeptember is National Childhood Cancer Awareness Month

    Changing the Perspective on Childhood Cancer
    September is National Childhood Cancer Awareness Month

    The month of September is Childhood Cancer Awareness Month, a time set aside by numerous organizations across the United States to honor the children and families who are touched by this disease. Childhood cancer is a topic about which most of us are blissfully unaware until it touches our lives. We think of it as…

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  • “Death Sets a Thing Significant”A poem about cherishing what our loved ones leave behind

    “Death Sets a Thing Significant”
    A poem about cherishing what our loved ones leave behind

    Even if you’re not a huge fan of poetry, you’ve most likely heard of mid-19th century poet Emily Dickinson. Born in 1830 in Amherst, Massachusetts, Dickinson spent most of her life completely isolated from the outside world. Her work was heavily influenced by the metaphysical poets of the 17th century England, as well as her…

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  • Monday Hearts for Madalene
    Page Hodel creates beautiful hearts as an ongoing celebration of love

    It’s an honor for SevenPonds to share with our readers the story of the Monday Hearts for Madalene project, a true account of the power of love in the midst of death. The project’s origins take us to 2005: the moment Page Hodel encountered Madalene Rodriguez and fell “instantly, dizzyingly in love with her.” The couple’s first meeting was…

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  • Performance Artist Uses Power of Ritual to Move Collective GriefRebecca Belmore's performance "Vigil" highlights authentic expression and the power of witnessing

    Performance Artist Uses Power of Ritual to Move Collective Grief
    Rebecca Belmore’s performance “Vigil” highlights authentic expression and the power of witnessing

    We all have different ideas that spring to mind when we hear the word “ritual.” Some of us immediately see in the mind’s eye the titillating Hollywood version, with dim candle-lit rooms and voices rhythmically reciting words in a language known only to initiates. On the other hand, many of us feel cozily at home…

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  • Our Weekly Tip: Remember Your Loved One with a Celebration of LifeUse balloons and photographs to honor and remember the person who died

    Our Weekly Tip: Remember Your Loved One with a Celebration of Life
    Use balloons and photographs to honor and remember the person who died

    Our Tip of the Week: If you’ve lost someone you admired or cared about, chances are that person had similar feelings towards you. While their death may signify a disheartening time for you, it’s likely that they would still want you to be happy and to remember the good times you shared. Sharing memories brings…

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  • What is a Doctor’s Role in Advance Care Planning? (Interview)A medical doctor discusses his passion for palliative and hospice care

    What is a Doctor’s Role in Advance Care Planning? (Interview)
    A medical doctor discusses his passion for palliative and hospice care

    Today SevenPonds concludes our discussion with Dr. Karl Steinberg, MD. about his two-decade medical practice focusing on palliative and hospice care. (Read Part One here.) Dr. Steinberg is the medical director of three nursing homes and Hospice by the Sea (since 1995). He currently sits on the board of directors at AMDA (American Medical Doctors Association)…

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  • “Living Life Dying Death: A Guide to Healthy Conversations About Death and Dying to Inspire Life and Living”A wealth of wonderful advice packed into a little book about living and dying well

    “Living Life Dying Death: A Guide to Healthy Conversations About Death and Dying to Inspire Life and Living”
    A wealth of wonderful advice packed into a little book about living and dying well

    Living in the 21st century leaves little space for reflection about the important matters of life and death. We Americans, in particular, create entire identities around our levels of busyness. We measure our value not by who we are or what we hold dear, but by what — and how much — we do. Against…

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  • How Quakers Cope with DeathHonoring the dead brings solace to the grieving

    How Quakers Cope with Death
    Honoring the dead brings solace to the grieving

    The Quaker religion is a form of Christianity founded by George Fox in England around 1650. Six years later, in 1656, two women brought the Quaker religion to the United States. Quakers believe that Christ, and by extension God, lives in each of our souls. They do not believe that we require clergy to bring…

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