• Our Monthly Tip: Make an “In Case of Death” File to Ease Loved One’s GriefHow preparing for your own death can be the ultimate act of love

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    Our Monthly Tip: Make an “In Case of Death” File to Ease Loved One’s Grief
    How preparing for your own death can be the ultimate act of love



  • On Terminal Illness: The Dad Project by Briony Campbell
    Life, death, cancer and what Briony Cambell learned through photographing her dad’s terminal illness

    “Being a good daughter to my dying dad was tricky,” says photographer Briony Campbell on her 2009 photo series, The Dad Project, which chronicles her father David Campbell’s end of life battle against cancer. The London-based artist was in her final year of study at the London College of Communication when it became clear her…

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  • Healing with Craft: A Sachet for the Stages of GriefA DIY sachet can bring comfort and warmth during the grieving process

    Healing with Craft: A Sachet for the Stages of Grief
    A DIY sachet can bring comfort and warmth during the grieving process

    No two people grieve alike. During the stages of grief, some crave outlets of creative expression while others prefer quiet reflection; some experience the stages of grief relatively quickly, while others take years to step back into a ‘normal’ life. Whatever side of the spectrum you fall on, there’s an aspect of grief that remains…

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  • What is Reiki? (Interview)
    How Reiki and Qigong can help soothe and heal both the grieving and the chronically ill

    Michelle Wallace has been teaching Pilates since 2004 and also offers Reiki and Qigong sessions. She holds a BA from UC Berkeley and an MFA in Creative Writing from Mills College. Kelly: First of all, could you tell us a little bit about what you do? Michelle: I am a Reiki (pronounced “Ray-Key”) master, Qigong…

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  • “Kaddish”Allen Ginsberg memorializes his mother's struggle with mental illness in his poetry book

    “Kaddish”
    Allen Ginsberg memorializes his mother’s struggle with mental illness in his poetry book

    When readers discover beat poet Allen Ginsberg, they often first come across the poem “Howl“. The elegiac rhapsody was (in)famous in its time for its explicit language and an ensuing obscenity trial that, ironically, only threw Ginsberg’s work straight into national public attention. Indeed, the first time I learned of “Howl” was not in English but…

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  • Why do they put nails in a coffin?
    To stop doctors from working on the patient.

    More from Laughter is Medicine: The Wheel of Doom How to Communicate with a Friend from Beyond the Grave “Mrs. Brown’s Misunderstanding”

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  • Ancient Greece’s Burial Traditions
    Exploring the Ancient Greek’s funeral traditions and ideas of death

    Ancient Greeks are known for many things: their poems, their plays, their mythology, their philosophers and the Olympics. Some things that aren’t as well known include their burial practices. Ancient Greeks believed in gods and the afterlife, funerals were an important aspect of the transition from life to death. So they created proper rituals that would…

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  • Should Doctors Guide us through the End of Life?Oakland doctor Jessica Nutik Zitter reveals the medical industry's misguided attitude toward death

    Should Doctors Guide us through the End of Life?
    Oakland doctor Jessica Nutik Zitter reveals the medical industry’s misguided attitude toward death

    In a recent New York Times article, Oakland doctor Jessica Nutik Zitter advocates the need for doctors to receive training not only in saving lives, but also in facilitating death. Although they are trained to respond to a “code blue,” which signals the need for immediate resuscitation, she writes that doctors need a protocol for…

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  • Monday Hearts for Madalene
    Page Hodel creates the most beautiful hearts in an ongoing celebration of love

    It’s an honor for SevenPonds to share with our readers the story of the Monday Hearts for Madalene project, a true account of the power of love in the midst of death. The project’s origins take us to 2005: the moment Page Hodel encountered Madalene Rodriguez and fell “instantly, dizzyingly in love with her.” The couple’s first meeting was…

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  • Why Am I Writing About The Film “High Fidelity” On A Blog About End Of Life?
    Sadly, today I relate to its exploration of disenfranchised grief and conclude with the film’s list of the top 5 songs about death

    Today I had a High Fidelity kind of day. The truth is I’ve had a few too many such days this past year. Sadly, I’ve been dealing with disenfranchised grief a lot. It’s not good. For those of you who have not seen this brilliant film, it’s a must. High Fidelity was ranked by Rotten…

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